12 CONNECTIONS AND DIRECTIONS
To remain whole, be twisted!
To become straight, let yourself be bent.
To become full, be hollow.
Be tattered, that you may be renewed.
Those that have little, may get more.
Those that have much, are but perplexed.
Therefore the Sage
Clasps the Primal Unity.
Lao Tse, Tao Te Ching
The style of working with people which we have described
is a form of psychotherapy; it is also, as we have tried
to make clear, a political and a spiritual practice; but
above all, we see it as a form of healing,
linked with the many methods and techniques being
discovered and rediscovered at the present time as part
of the 'alternative healing', 'alternative medicine'
movement. We very much identify with that movement, and
see our work as within the great stream of human energy,
going back to the Old Stone Age, which understands
healing as something done with humans rather than with
illnesses, a process of making whole rather than
the elimination of troublesome symptoms.
It is time to explain how we see our work within the
whole web of healing and therapeutic practices; which
approaches are our natural allies and complements; to
explore some possible lines of distinction and
disagreement; and to clarify how we see our own potential
contribution to the practice of healing.
It seems to us that healing takes place essentially
through a relationship. The relationship is
often primarily that between client and healer, which
comes to stand for the relationship between the client
and the world. This is the process which we have
described in Chapter 8 as 'transference', and we believe
that it arises in every form of healing work. Healing
strongly encourages 'parent/child' interactions: I am
coming to you for help; asking you to kiss it better, to
feed me, to look after me, with all the positive and
negative feelings that stirs up in me, all the love and
the rebellion. Equally, this will stir up in you all
sorts of positive and negative parental feelings about
me.
As we, have argued in Chapter 8, these feelings can be an
obstacle to the healing process, but more deeply they are
a unique opportunity to examine the issues at the heart
of the client's problem - their deep feelings about
power, dependency, safety, incarnation itself. A healer
who cannot or will not recognise and work with these
issues of relationship is severely handicapped. It will
be hard for them to see clearly what is going on in the
healing process, the underlying transactions behind the
surface. They will find it difficult to understand why
some clients 'get better' and others don't; what their own
needs and demands are doing to the healing work. The
theory of transference is one of the biggest
contributions that our style of work can make to the
whole field of healing. It comes
out of the Freudian roots of Reichian therapy, and it is
still possible to understand what we do as a form of
psychoanalysis - though a very mutated form. Our concern
is still with the unconscious memories of childhood
traumas and the unconscious structures of defence which
they have created. The role of breathing in Reichian work
is, in one way, very similar to the role of free
association in classical analysis, the analyst says just
say whatever comes up' and watches the blocks to this
process, while the Reichian says just breathe freely' and
watches the blocks to this process.
Within the range of psychotherapies, however, we would
identify at least as strongly with the cluster of styles
and practices known as 'humanistic psychology'. Some of
the differences between this and classical psychoanalysis
are an emphasis on the client's own responsibility and
empowerment; an attitude of 'whatever works' rather than
strictly defined techniques; and a focus on the
'here-and-now' rather than on past history. This last
theme is identified most often with Fritz Perls' Gestalt
Therapy: it is very much a position we share - that there
will always be more to uncover about the past, always
more old pain to 'get out', and that the real healing
comes from letting go of the past and moving on.
The influences here work both ways. The whole of
humanistic psychology has been very much influenced by
Reich's work, so that in a sense our fusion of the two
represents 'what Reich might have done if he had lived
into the 1980s'. Or so we would like to think! In
practice, Reich was very much committed to the idea of
the therapist-as-expert, and even believed that only
medical doctors should give therapy. In any case, the
influence is strong; Fritz Perls, in particular, derived
more of his ideas than are generally realised from
Reich's work - and we in turn use several of Perls'
techniques.
This 'here-and-now' emphasis is the mental and verbal
expression of what we have described as the theme of incarnation.
But incarnation, of course, means 'coming to be in the
flesh', and it is through bodywork that a person
can most strongly confront, and change, their resistance
to being here and now, can make a new commitment to
facing and resolving the problems of life. Although we
may quite often not touch a person during a therapy
session, or even directly engage with their bodylife, it
is always a crucial foundation to the work we do. We feel
that purely verbal therapies are handicapped in
facilitating deep change.
There are many forms of bodywork
available these days, and although Reich was the first
person to link bodywork into psychotherapy many people
have independently since made the same breakthrough.
There are also several schools of bodywork directly
descended from Reich's work apart from our own -
historically speaking they are our cousins. These schools
often refer to themselves, or are referred to by others,
as 'neo-Reichian'. We'd like to say a little bit about
two of these: Bioenergetics and Postural Integration.
Bioenergetics, developed by Alexander Lowen (a therapist
of immense wisdom and love who studied with and received
therapy from Reich), is in some ways very close to our
own work. Some important differences are that
Bioenergetics focuses more on a standing, 'vertically
grounded' position rather than a lying down,
'horizontally grounded' one, and that it works more with
postures and exercises than with direct touch. Both of
these features put an emphasis on qualities of
independence, assertiveness and control, rather than on
surrender and acceptance - a different route to the same
goal.
Postural Integration is a deep restructuring of the
body's connective tissue which surrounds each muscle and
muscle group: it argues that until the connective tissue
is made supple and flexible it is not physically possible
for muscles to relax and lengthen. Postural Integration
is profoundly influenced by Reichian ways of seeing, and
emphasises the role of the breath and of armouring.
A big difference between our own work
and Postural Integration - and even more so with Rolfing,
another form of deep massage restructuring - is that we
try very hard to avoid a concept of how someone should
be: to avoid offering a model, either implicit or
explicit- of how a person ought to breathe, ought
to stand, ought to move. In practice, of course,
the difference is only one of emphasis; we do have a very
strong sense of the difference between health and
unhealth, while any good practitioner respects the
uniqueness of each individual.
There is, however, a big difference between the
programmatic approach of an essentially remedial
system like Postural Integration, and our own work's
focus on opening up to our own core, to our innate
capacity for growth and healing. This is the bodywork
level of what becomes on other levels a stress on the
unconscious wisdom of the individual, and its capacity to
find the right path if our ego 'gets out of the way'.
What in practice happens, in the course
of therapy - what has happened many times to each of us -
is that we begin to experience an inner sense of
'not being right' in our bodies. We sense a need
to be helped in expanding, lengthening, straightening,
softening. This, it seems to us, is the point at which it
is fruitful to find a remedial practitioner of one sort
or another, the point at which our bodymind is ready and
able to accept and use this new way of holding ourselves,
rather than immediately 'snapping back' into the old
shape. Without emotional change, physical change won't
stick; equally, without physical change emotional change
won't stick.
We have discovered some forms of 'remedial' work which
are tremendously gentle and subtle in style, encouraging
and allowing growth rather than pushing the individual.
The Alexander Technique is a non-invasive approach to
opening us out into a more natural and relaxed posture,
an effortless way of being in the world; in many ways it
seems the perfect complement to Reichian work,
approaching the same goals from the opposite direction.
It may well be that Alexander practitioners also have
something to learn from a therapy which involves
emotional release. Tai Ch'i, though not a therapy (and
indeed the Alexander Technique doesn't see itself as a
therapy), is another gentle and enormously powerful way
of aligning us with subtle energy flows, teaching us to
make less and less effort to achieve better and better
results. And the Feldenkrais Method seems to be a third,
independent style of working with the same principles of
non-effort, not-doing, going with the flow.
If we feel slightly cautious about remedial bodywork
which in some of its forms can simply introduce a whole
new lot of tensions to cover up and mask the original
ones, then we feel a lot more dubious about methods of
'remedial mindwork'. By this we mean all the vast range
of therapies and 'positive thinking' techniques which aim
to alter our thoughts and behaviour to match a conscious
ideal.
The most obvious example of this is 'behaviour
modification', a set of tricks and techniques which can
be highly effective in removing symptoms like phobias,
compulsions, blushing, and so on. Certainly, such methods
are a lot less harmful than alternatives like drugging or
ECT, but we are convinced that what is going on here is masking,
a suppression of symptoms rather than working with the
problem which those symptoms express. Just as
allopathic medicine, by suppressing the symptoms of a
deep problem, make it harder and harder for the body to
heal itself, so behaviour modification techniques can
make it harder and harder for real emotional healing to
take place.
There are other versions of behaviour modification with a
very different image and appearance; these work with
affirmations, with visualisation, with positive thinking.
Most of these techniques assert that 'we create our own
reality'.
There is very deep truth in this statement, but there is
also often a very superficial illusion. We can
create our own reality; we can identify and let go of the
negative 'scripts' and assumptions through which we
constantly recreate our own suffering. But we can also
impose a layer of illusion on top of an inner
negativity, a quite false and unlived positivity which is
the mental equivalent of a new layer of physical tensions
masking the original problem.
What all these systems have in common is a tinkerer's
approach to the human unconscious, seeing it as a box of
tricks where one has only to press the right button, to
find the right switch, in order to achieve the desired
goal. The bodymind unconscious is the source of our
wisdom and the source of our life; physical or emotional
symptoms of dis-ease are messages that our conscious
behaviour is out of balance, and that we need to return
to the source - not to find some simple and effortless
way of pretending to feel better.
We are not saying, of course, that all work with
affirmations and positive visualisation is damaging. In
fact, we use these techniques a lot ourselves. But what
is vital is to check out our response to the new message
on all levels; never to suppress an inner
resistance or denial, but to give it all the space it
needs to express and discharge itself. As with remedial
bodywork, such techniques are only healing when the
emotional space exists to make use of them.
The idea of space seems to come up over and over
again in our work: the need to create and allow a
physical, emotional, mental, spiritual spaciousness in
which we can let things be, let ourselves be, rather than
trying to tinker all the time. The need for real change,
both in ourselves and in the world, can then flower out
of space and quietness.
Apart from the specifically 'neo-Reichian' approaches,
one form of growth work with which we feel a special
connection is Rebirthing, or 'conscious connected
breathing', which is centred on a simple and powerful
bodily technique: encouraging clients to breathe
continuously in and out with no break between breaths,
focusing high in the chest, and keeping breathing no
matter what feelings and thoughts come up. This is an
amazingly powerful technique, highly effective in many
ways in releasing blocks and coming through to joyous,
streaming sensations and spacious attitudes.
Rebirthers combine conscious connected breathing with a
quite elaborate set of ideas about which we are
less enthusiastic, and which seem in many ways quite
separate from the breathing technique itself. It is as if
Rebirthing has become a sort of grab-bag of whatever
notions and methods its founders and developers have come
across, simply throwing them all together rather than
incorporating new ideas around the central theme. The
breathing technique itself, however, is very valuable,
and we sometimes incorporate it into our own work. It
brings people into contact with their core resistances
very quickly, and also into contact with their of health.
In fact it is a way of breathing which often happens
spontaneously, a deeply natural way of releasing trauma
that one can often see in small babies and in animals.
Our own daughter 'cleared' the effects of her birth by
repeatedly Rebirthing herself in the first months of
life, and still goes back to this breathing in times of
stress and illness.
We would also like to mention Polarity Therapy, an
approach based on Indian Ayurvedic medicine which
combines bodywork, energy balancing, nutrition and
psychotherapy in a complex and powerful synthesis. From
our own experience of receiving Polarity sessions, it is
working with the same body energy as Reichian therapy -
though there are differences in how this energy is
understood.
In relating our own approach to other
healing and therapeutic techniques we find that in some
cases we can pick up and use elements of other
approaches, adapting them to our own needs. In other
cases a healing system feels more self-contained, as if
one either has to work within that worldview or leave it
be - thus we might recommend a client to go off and work
with another practitioner, either temporarily or
indefinitely.
To some extent we are increasingly moving away from the
'Reichian' label as our work while still in tune with
Reich's essential vision of the world, becomes less and
less like anything he himself did. We have to take on, as
well, the fact that Reich himself came to despair of the
effectiveness of individual therapy, saying that a
twisted tree cannot be straightened, and that the only
hope was to work with infants and with the orgone energy
systems of the atmosphere.
It is true that a twisted tree cannot
be straightened; it is true also that a human being can
never have their past experiences erased, nor
the imprint of those experiences on their bodymind. But
this does not strike us as a cause for despair. Sometimes
we feel like despairing - as must everyone who has any
sensitivity to what is happening in the world. But even a
twisted tree can thrive and blossom, can take joy and
heart in its own strength and survival, and can send
forth seedlings with the chance of growing straighter and
more joyfully still. This assumes that straightness is in
the nature of the tree, and maybe humans are more like
hawthorns, whose grace is in their twistedness as it
reflects the elemental forces which have shaped them.
Individual therapy and healing, as well as having an
intrinsic value, are contributions to the great work of
healing our planet, and healing our relationship with our
planet. How can we free our energies enough to work
effectively at this daunting project?
This book constitutes one possible answer to that
question. A part of dealing with our despair about the
planet's future, as Joanna Macy has argued, is to face
that despair, to reach down into the grief and fear, to
reach through to the underlying wellsprings of creative
action. There are profound connections between our
feelings about the planet and our feelings about our
individual history. If we are sensitive to the poisoning
of the biosphere, is this because it resonates with the
poisoning of our own feelings and energy? If we fear
explosion and destruction, is this connected with fear of
our own repressed anger and excitement?
Of course, there are real objective threats, and it is
precisely in order to be able to face them that we need
to look at our own material. In fact, we can even
understand the great arsenals of potential annihilation
as themselves the result of armouring, of
repression - human orgasmic energy, with its secondary
violence and hatefulness, all exported and projected into
The Bomb, because we cannot acknowledge and befriend
these forces within ourselves.
Thus growth work can be a force for good in the wider
world, as well as in the individual interaction of client
and therapist But it can also be a force for evil. There
are many techniques discovered or rediscovered by figures
in the 'growth movement' which are powerfully effective
in changing people's attitudes and behaviour, but which
are in themselves value-free, equally effective in
producing almost any sort of change. The
transference relationship can become discipleship; the
crisis and surrender which can be profoundly healing can
also be the collapse and self-loss of brainwashing.
Many therapies, and not just the dramatic cultish ones,
are devoted to brainwashing. They see their role as one
of 'normalisation', turning their clients and patients
back into ordinary, passive members of society who will
then play by the accepted rules, even if those rules are
destructive to life and creativity.
With any growth technique it is right and sensible to
ask: What is your vision? How do you see human beings,
and their place in nature? What sort of society do you
want to live in, and how do you want to move towards it?
A large number of growth practitioners, it seems, are
unable or unwilling to answer these fundamental
questions. In this book. as well as trying to share our
techniques and insights, we have attempted to offer our
answers.
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